It's Up For Grabs! [How-To]

Trust ~

Your instincts are with you to guide you. Do not confuse instincts with what you've learned in society or from your family, goverment or peer group, though! Here we mean the things you did "without thinking". You can never do anything "wrong" in the broad sense, not ever. Be certain that everytime you experience something you don't like, it is for your benefit. Sounds wierd to you might be, but that is how this Universe is made up. Really nothing is for your disadvantage. [Read more about this HERE] It might seem like it, in the moment. And you might curse someone, something or a situation. But, be sure, it is starting to benefit you RIGHT THEN and THERE. So, what happens? You get stuck on the wrongness of it, and cannot get your thought off it - that is the only way it can "go wrong", and that is only on an individual feel-bases. It does not go wrong, it just feels like it, seems like it. And ONLY because THAT very individual (You for example) is pondering it in a way that feels bad and unfair and all that kind of "wrongness-thinking". We would recommend, if you wanted to feel good and if you wanted to start to experience the benefit of what you just experienced as wrong or unfair or something else you didn't fancy. Yes, then we would recommend you to get yourself to REMEMBER. And how do I do that, if I'm far from the knowing of it, you say? We say; anything of distracting nature will do. And what is distracting to one person might not be for another, and in certain situation something that previously worked, might not work as well as last time. So we recommend to remind youself consciously, if that is avaliable for you at that time and on that subject. And if not, distract yourself to start thinking about something else. You can do something that REALLY takes keen concentration... a balancing act can very well do! It can be as simple as starting to sing, dance, jump, do some heavy physical work, some "hard" mental work, listen to music, play music, go outside, take a walk, smell the air, hug a tree, take photographs, make a list of your favourite ways to distract yourself... and make a mental note right now: "All happening is of benefit to me, I might not know the outcome yet, but it IS of benefit to me. I can be the chooser of the outcome and in charge of myself. Am I willing to distract myself right now?" You totally are in charge, so when you are not willing to distract yourself, you have choosen to linger in it some more. It will benefit you. Whatever you choose will benefit. The question is ONLY; "How would I fancy to feel right now?" Good, right? We would choose GOOD or something like FABULOUS, MUSING, REJOICING... well, yes, something like that, which feels really nice and cosy. We'd recommend that for you too. There is no need ever to feel "bad" by choice. As soon as you notice that you're not feeling as you want, you can change it. And making it hard for yourself is your choice. There is actually no need to ponder Why you are feeling bad, only KNOW everything is of benefit for you, and so - go on to feeling however you fancy in the moment. We'd make it easy for ourselves, and we mean on all subjects. Easy on all subjects. There is sooo much LOVE avaliable, so much feeling-magnificent for you to just GRAB for yourself, in every moment... Doesn't that feel like the party you signed up for??? ENJOY!!! Oh, and knowing comes with experience. If you do not have it already, you will, with every little step you take. And you are guided all the way, not alone. But in company and loved unconditionally for every little tiny detail that you are!

August 18th, 2012